Conflict

What we call 'peacemaking' often isn't. Whether examining our own behavior or observing others labeled as peacemakers, what looks like building peace might actually be conflict avoidance in disguise.

Many self-proclaimed peacemakers – and those we admire as peacemakers – are actually conflict avoiders. They're not building bridges of connection and understanding; they're simply trying not to make waves. And most don't realize it. [...]