You avoid posting consistently, so you think it's perfectionism. You feel uncomfortable on video, so you assume it's visibility fears. You procrastinate on content creation, so you label it impostor syndrome.
Meanwhile, everyone around you is trying to help by telling you to 'just push through the fear' or 'get over your limiting beliefs.'
But what if you're all missing the real issue?
When we shift from asking "What did I do wrong?" to "What is this revealing?" - something profound happens.
The obstacle becomes a gateway.
I want to share some insights about a hidden struggle that many high achievers face, one that I've personally grappled with throughout my life. It's a topic that is rarely discussed at its deepest level; it's incredibly vulnerable and lies at the core of our being. It profoundly impacts every aspect of our lives. By starting this conversation, we can support each other in navigating these challenges and stepping into our full potential. For [...]
High Achievers – outliers, trailblazers, innovators – are often labeled “difficult.” Too intense, too demanding, too argumentative, too dismissive of others.
The very qualities that make us “difficult” are often the same ones that drive our greatest contributions. [...]
Interestingly, after New Year's, a reel came on my FB feed predicting my life would be very different by February. While I couldn't have predicted the ways, I'm watching this unfold.
Have you ever felt like you were wrecked, torn apart and not put back together yet?
I've often heard from my highly successful, seemingly unflappable clients that they have. [...]
A question came up about my recent post on the Litmus Test Question - What do you do when multiple opportunities pass the test?
It seems simple: getting a 'yes' from the Litmus Test Question should make decisions clear. But what happens when an opportunity aligns with your purpose yet your plate is already full? This challenge frequently faces high achievers, particularly entrepreneurs. [...]
